27 June 2025

Stuck in a Loop

Image by Thorsten Dahl from Pixabay
When you hit a roadblock, sometimes the best thing is to set the person aside and come back (days, weeks, or even years later) to take a fresh look. Perhaps working on collateral lines will shed new light. Or, in the future, there may be new records to peruse. All of this is sensible and genealogists do this all the time. You can't force the records, they either exist or they don't, and you'll either find them, or you won't. Sometimes, the wheels are spinning but it's not getting us anywhere. 

So why am I finding it so hard to set aside the 25 people in my tree Ancestry's ProTools says I need some form of documentation for? They account for only 0.8% of my tree, so this isn't a big out of control issue. 15 of them I know only a surname or given name (but not both, making them harder to find). But 10 of them, I believe I have the given name and surname (and sometimes middle name or initial as well). Some are from far in the past, and some are quite recent. Recent is usually somewhat easier for me to locate (but not in this case). Why can't I let them go? 

I'm stuck in a loop. Just about every day, when I finish my "regular" research, I pop over and try to find something...anything for these people. Is ProTools Tree Checker a good motivator? Sure, it seems to be for me. It's now my personal mission to get to 0 people with no documentation. But is it a valuable use of my time? Probably not so much when I'm not making progress. Were perseverance alone enough, I'd be golden. But it's all about finding the records. And those records are eluding me. I'm spinning my wheels on the same searches, when my time would likely be better spent on researching other parts of my tree.

Is it possible I have incorrect names? It's totally possible! These are names mined from obituaries, death certificates, Social Security  and other records where there could certainly be spelling errors or where information was provided by an outside source who may have gotten it wrong. I can't be sure until I find a matching record, preferably more than one. If I'm spinning my wheels on bad data, I'll keep returning no results. I need to find a way to either set this personal goal aside (for now) or come up with a new (and more inventive way) of searching. It might be time to reassess my research goals, and set some new (perhaps smaller, more achievable) goals to help me break free of the loop. It doesn't mean I'll stop looking, but maybe not so frequently.

Letting go isn't easy! What do you do when you find yourself stuck in a genealogy loop? 

Image by Thorsten Dahl from Pixabay

2 comments:

  1. In days past, a genealogist's objective was to not repeat research, but resources were limited and new ones didn't appear daily like now. I'd say if you are motivated to work on this small group of people, go for it!

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  2. I used to be like you - obsessed with finding details for each and every person in my tree. As you've noted, it's exhausting and can leave us feeling stuck.

    Now I choose one ancestor, and work backwards by generation - the projects often last a couple of months or more. Once I reach an end point, I choose another ancestor and start the process over again. It's really helped to keep me focussed.

    That said, every once in a while if I'm tired and Ancestry throws an unrelated hint at me, I'll briefly go down the rabbit hole (no more than an hour or two) and then the next day, return to my latest project.

    Blogging about my progress is helpful as well. The one issue is with my latest one, I'm thinking about this family all the time...they follow me everywhere!

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